Sex Therapy
Why is Sex Important to Talk About?
Sex is one of the most difficult topics rarely discussed. For a variety of reasons, people struggle with notions that sex is dirty, shameful, or embarrassing. Whether the subliminal messages of society, religious doctrines, parental undertones, childhood misinformation, or a traumatic event, people are uneasy about discussing sex.
For some, the act of sex is just as challenging. It can be confusing, physically painful, mentally distressing, mediocre, manipulative or controlling, unsafe, boring, intimidating, or traumatic. It can divide or destroy a relationship and it can bring a relationship closer. It can improve the quality of your life and has health benefits too.
What Will We Talk About in Sex Therapy?
Besides the basics of physical anatomy and biological responses, I often discuss topics related to:
| Sensuality | Desire | Consent |
|---|---|---|
| Pleasure | Body awareness | Shame |
| Orgasms | Sensory touch | Hard limits |
| Passion | Altered states | Contracts |
| Pain relief | Playfulness | Boundaries |
| Fun | Arousal | Ejaculation |
| Creativity | Penetration | Concerns |
| Confidence | Exploration | Education |
| Foreplay | Eroticism | Challenges |
| Deeper intimacy | Connection | Fears |
| Fetishes | Vulnerability | Roleplay |
| Empower | Sexy | Scenes |
| Expression | Power | Kink |
And more, depending on how far you want to explore...
For as uncomfortable as you imagine it will be, I believe you will be surprised at just how natural it will become. I offer a space that is safe, free from judgment, and confidential. It moves at your comfort level.
Why
Me?
As a licensed, certified sex therapist who works with a variety of clients and issues, sex is a daily topic of discussion for me. From what people find most exciting and pleasurable to the things people feel much shame and secrecy around. I hear it all.
I am an open-minded, nonjudgemental, sex-positive Kinkster, who works on topics not familiar to many therapists such as BDSM, Fetishes, and Swinger lifestyle. I am able to discuss these topics from not only a research and educational perspective but from personal experience.
Sex is an important part of self-expression and connection for most intimate relationships. I am passionate about exploring and educating any and every one on the topic of sexuality and at the pace they are comfortable exploring.
I need to mention, I do not offer Dominatrix services, Disciplinarian services or play sessions in this setting. I can, however, point you in the direction to find those things once we have discussed how you can do this safely.
It is important to note that sex therapy does not include physical contact or sexual activities between therapist and client(s).
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